Today my little superheros made a decision to quit sucking on their thumbs. Well one sucks his thumb, the other sucks his arm. It's a habit they both formed while infants. But now they are three and five. I was a thumb sucker well into Kindergarten. I remember getting much comfort from sucking my thumb but feeling shame because everyone around me told me how bad and yucky it was. I would still suck my thumb, but just hide it from everyone. I didn't want my boys to have the same feelings of shame and guilt. Today we talked about trying to stop. I didn't use negative words, I just told them I thought it was time to quit because arms and thumbs weren't made to suck on forever. My husband and I came up with a reward of going to a very fun local indoor playground. The boys rarely get to go there, so they were so excited and on board from the minute we mentioned the place. We decided as a family that the boys would have to go seven days without sucking their thumb/ arm. If they can stop for seven days, they can go to the indoor playground (this place is awesome, a huge labyrinth of climbing tubes and slides, a train, miniature golf and even a little pizza shop).
We aren't going to be crazy strict about enforcing this. We realize they will make mistakes. It's such a habit to slip that thumb in the mouth, especially when they are having down time like watching TV or listening to a story. As long as they are really trying, they will be rewarded.
As the day went on, I wondered what habit I could give up. I could join my boys in a lesson of self control. I was having trouble coming up with something but then one of my good friends messaged me on FB later in the evening. She wanted to know if I would be interested in revisiting a 21 day challenge that we did a year ago. What great timing!
Here is the 21 Day Challenge:
I pinned this on Pinterest about a year ago. I tried to find the source, but it didn't link to anything. If this is your "No Junk Food Challenge" please let me know so that I may give you credit.
We are going to start a new challenge soon. We may follow this one just as it is, or we might tweak it a little. I'll let you know when we start. You can join us too!
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